I wonder why some women are able to tolerate cheating / physical abuse / verbal abuse / or other bad behavior from a guy.
I have a guy friend - above average look, mid 20s, married to his university sweetheart for a year. He still meet other girls (always a different one and they know he's married) for lunch / dinner (if it proceed on to sex, even better for him) while his wife works or thinks that he is hanging out with his guy friends. Is his wife too gullible? Or she just turn a blind eye as long as she gets to see him every night? Is she a
小女人 (little women)?
Another guy friend of mine.. almost 30, very ego (is it true that guys with small dick is normally a egoist?), has a girlfriend for 2 years. The girlfriend cries easily.. sad movies, touching conversations.. you can say that she is a very emotional person. Well, the story is.. the guy often hits her on her head, arms or leg. To outsiders like me, I can't tolerate it because I feel that it was quite overboard to lay even a last finger on a woman. But to her, he's just playing with her even though sometimes it hurts so bad that she cries. And when she cries, he pacifies her and everything is ok. WTF right?! Is she a
小女人?
Till now, I still don't understand why single young woman like to go for married man?
Most said, "I don't know he was married in the first place."
So after you learnt that he is STILL married, why didn't you broke off with him? If you're in his wife's shoes, how would you feel? A mistress has no guarantee.. No future. Youth is wasted just like that.
Just yesterday, I learnt that an acquaintance (29, divorced with a 7 year old boy) of mine who is a mistress to a 40 year old married man (in his 2nd marriage) with 3 children, discovered that he cheated once again on her with the same China woman he knows before her. She was devastated and want to broke off, but the guy still pester her to patch back and all. It's a cycle of never-ending heart break. Is love really that blind?
My mother was a
小女人. That's why my dad was able to climb over her head and torture her. Luckily they are no longer legally married and my mom don't have to go through anymore emotional/physical abuse.
Maybe that's why I look down on
小女人? Maybe that's why I don't like it when woman worship their men and voluntarily diminish their self value, losing respect from the man they love truthfully.
To all the
LADIES out there:
Show pride in yourself. You NEED to feel that the man you love treats you as special and unique, and vice versa.
You should feel LUCKY~ to have each other, upholding each other's sense of happiness and pride.
If your fellow doesn't show you how special you are, he's not your ideal mate. MOVE ON.
quoted from a book by Margaret Kent
The key word here is Respect from the guy you love ~
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